Let's ask ourselves these questions.
- Are our attitudes and behaviors towards other people changing?
- Do we still value intimacy and bonding together?
- Do we find ourselves looking for ever more kinky porn?
- Have we become disinterested with people offline, even to the point of avoiding or ignoring them for fear of absolute boredom or because they are interfering with our selfish plans?
- Is it getting harder to stay focused on a task or activity without procrastinating?
- If we close our eyes can we write a creative story or paint a pretty picture or compose a song in our minds? Or have we lost our creative spark long ago?
Let's take a look at some of these videos. I found them interesting and I know I have suffered a few of these effects.
I noticed at an early age that sometimes when I was with a girl and wanted to have sex that sometimes I would lose my erection. It was embarrassing whenever it happened because the girl would think I am not attracted to her. A few years ago I came to realize that it was because I was masturbating at least once daily. And if I went just 3-4 days without touching myself then I never had any problem keeping my erection when the time came for sex.
At this stage in life I feel that I use view porn in a balance with everything else. But is that still too much?
These videos seem to think so.
Let's discuss the effect that porn and internet use has on us.
The Great Porn Experiment
Why I stopped watching porn
A year offline, what I have learned