Originally Posted by
Wendy Summers
I wish I had wisdom to make words of. LOL.
My headache has been guys I've dated that wanted to be topped NEVER listen to what I tell them in advance: warm up with a fucking dildo the week before I go to top them. Not a single one ever did... so when I try to enter them, they start bitching. I have been blue-balled so often like this it's really fucking annoying.
To the OP: If you don't think you can take it, stick to the foreplay. You'll both have a better experience.