How to date a t-girl?

[tsdvdman]

Advertising yourself as looking for fem-boy or t-girls makes it sound like we're a commodity or some kind of goal to attain. We stay as far away from those kind of people as possible. HUGE turn off. We date people who move in our circles like everyone else does. The kind of people we date are already hanging out with people we know, naturally live the lifestyle.
If you're on the outside looking in and the only connection you have with people like us is the desire to put your dick in one... you're exactly the wrong kind of person. Just get a hooker or a membership to a porn site and leave it at that.

As you can see..you can't ask for some general advice without the anger and disdain coming out. It seems (most) of them have been fucked (literally and figuratively) by THOSE PEOPLE so bad that they can't even begin to relate to anyone outside of their normal circles. As was stated above. Those circles are extremely small..hence why you should probably just stay away.
There are some beautiful ts out there though leading normal lives..you just have to be patient and seek them out.

[robbyfish]

Simple anser = the same way you would go about dating anyone else!

[TempestTS]

I like this answer -

Simple anser = the same way you would go about dating anyone else!

[Footlover]

The OP does raise a point though, where I live, there is one LGBT night, but the only frequenters are Lesbians, Gays and Crossdressers, I should know, I do the security for it every Thursday! There appears to be no real T-Girls around, I use TV-chix, but unless I'm
Looking for an escort, all that I can find locally are CD's. Which isn't what I'm looking for.

It's a hard one, I imagine that as previously stated, there are a lot of people out there just looking for a fuck'em dump'em. Which ultimately impacts on the genuine lovers out there.

FootLover

[Scuderia77]

I'm rather new here and I'm here to meet a t-girl or femboy. I'm a 26 year old guy from Amsterdam.

After having had enough of girls, I'm looking to meet with somebody who is blessed with something extra.
I'm not looking for quick sex or escort, but rather for a t-girl or femboy to date, hang out with and maybe love in longtime relationship.

I hope some of the members here can help me with some questions.

Where can I find t-girls or femboys? How do you guys find t-girls to date? Is there an online community for dating?

Feel free to send me a private message or share your experiences and perhaps tips.

In Holland we have the luck that there is an online sexchat for shemales, femboys etc. www.tgirl.nl. A lot of girls with something extra there!

[TempestTS]

The OP does raise a point though, where I live, there is one LGBT night, but the only frequenters are Lesbians, Gays and Crossdressers, I should know, I do the security for it every Thursday! There appears to be no real T-Girls around, I use TV-chix, but unless I'm
Looking for an escort, all that I can find locally are CD's. Which isn't what I'm looking for.

It's a hard one, I imagine that as previously stated, there are a lot of people out there just looking for a fuck'em dump'em. Which ultimately impacts on the genuine lovers out there.

FootLover

Point made by Libby and Wendy - Most TS dont go around advertising that they are Trans - going to a T-Girl nightclub (or event) does exactly that which is why many TS avoid such places - I hang at metal - punk and biker clubs when I do go out because its what I like to do - I do not think "hey I want to go out, now as a TS where can I go?" I dont think about being trans at all unless somebody else brings it up generally.

Also Most girls dont go around announcing their "T" even if they arnt stealth - I mean when was the last time you walked up to someone and said " Hi, my name is "John" and I was born male"

That girl at the bar right now that you are thinking about asking out may or may not be TS - (sure you could ask but how rude... I dont ask guys if they have a dick) the only way your going to find out for sure is if she says yes and ends up going home with you and you get lucky...

[nina_lisa]

After having had enough of girls

So you are tired of pussies and realized what you love is cock?

Where can I find t-girls or femboys?

You know there is an ocean of difference between both?

How do you guys find t-girls to date?

How do you win the lottery? you might get lucky and find one, or even never be able to find any trans girl to even have a drink with, it is 100% luck.

The question might have also been: how do i date someone from a Thai-Ethiopian mixed ethnic background as i love thai-Ethiopian fusion cuisine? The fact the % of people that are ts in a the general population is not that high.