WORKING GIRLS AND WHY

[YasminLee]

A lot of girls are being blame for working and I feel like some or even most of the guys here don't understand us. Do u ever wonder how can such a large percentage of any group are in this lifestyle?

Most of us start at a very young age, either in our teens or 20s. This is the most cofusion stage in our transitioning to adult hood period. we're talking people in general..it's confusing and frustrating..so take that and add realizing u should be a woman but was born male...u then have to make life decision..should i transition or not.

pros:
1.i get to be who I am

cons:
1. risk loosing family, friends
2. what will this do to me.
3.will i be happy
4.how will i get the money to transition.
a.nose 5,000
b.breast 5,000,
c.forehead 7-12,000
d.hormones 800/3months
e.adams apple, chin, cheek bones, and last but not least silicones...

that's a lot of money in an attempt to look as much as a woman as possible.

5. how will i make this kind of money.

there are so many things running though their head and worry....trust me..staying in school and continue being ridicule is last on there head...so here u go...

6.he hopes to be find love...only to find that most guys don't want u as a gf. at least not unless u look like the girls 100,000.00 surgery later....if they even want that...most guys we meet want the fantasy of being with us tgirl and back to their world the next morning...after a while u feel use, a lone and cheated.

most girls choose to escort as a solution after so many doors had already slam in their face..some jump right to it cause they were smart enough to realize from their friends experience...yes some of us are very smart, pretty, and probably find a regular job somewhere enough to survive...if u're a genetic girl...our expenses are not the same...we start our beauty with a canvas while genetic girls are born with them....

for those who don't know....when u pay for the girls..u don't pay for sex...u pay for not having to be in their life after u cum.....consider a fair contribution for what we have to go through...i feel like i can continue..but the reasons goes on....

IF U DON'T THINK IT'S HARD...TAKE A FEW WEEKS AND WALK IN OUR SHOES...DRESS UP...SEE HOW YOUR FAMILY WILL REACT...YOUR WORK...HOW DIFFERENT THE WORLD IS WHEN WHEN JUST SHOPPING AT THE MARKET FOR FOOD...

[Mugai_hentaisha]

Well said Yasmin well said

I know I have had several run-ins with friends of mine about transexuals. I tell them, "They are just people like you and I so get over it!" But alas they don't. why? I don't know? Maybe it is because there is a chemical lacking in their tiny brains that makes them judge people they don't understand without taking the time to learn of them. who knows?

All I know is you will have to do what you have too, to acheive your dreams. Just when choosing make sure you can live with the decisions you choose.

Again great post Yasmin.

[shestar]

I agree w Yasmine as to the reasons why girls work but let me ak you all this.Why do girls that have achieved the looks they want and the desired body they want after working for 10 plus years still do it? At what point does all the prostitution and sex for money just screw you up in the head? when does it stop? I have had 3 or 4 serious relationships with transsexuals( 1 year or more) and am around a lot of girls often.Doesnt it make most girls never be able to have a so called normal relationship even when they try? I give tGirls who transistion all the props in the world for there courage and strength because most of us probably couldnt do it. I say the working thing is okay as long as its a means to an end its just that for so so so many girls it never seems to end.

[Kramer]

All good points. But the prices nowadays are downright crazy! 250 and up for an hour. How do you explain these costs?? Im glad I quit years ago.

[tsluva]

All good points. But the prices nowadays are downright crazy! 250 and up for an hour. How do you explain these costs?? Im glad I quit years ago.

the same way they have to explain rent expenses
and poor housing, cost to living ( phone, electricity,etc)
as well as cost of medical treatment)
and having to do without the benefit of health/dental
insurances, 401K , etc.
And many don't have the luxury of shared assistance
with roomates, paid-well working boyfriends,
or other source of income.
and it's hard for a number of transexuals to work in
everyday society.

Compare your inconviences to theirs if you
care to do so.

if it's out of your budget and no chance for negotiation
you're just shit out of luck and have to move on to
the ones that will bargain and conviently suit your
financial needs.

[blahblahblah]

I agree w Yasmine as to the reasons why girls work but let me ak you all this.Why do girls that have achieved the looks they want and the desired body they want after working for 10 plus years still do it? At what point does all the prostitution and sex for money just screw you up in the head? when does it stop? I have had 3 or 4 serious relationships with transsexuals( 1 year or more) and am around a lot of girls often.Doesnt it make most girls never be able to have a so called normal relationship even when they try? I give tGirls who transistion all the props in the world for there courage and strength because most of us probably couldnt do it. I say the working thing is okay as long as its a means to an end its just that for so so so many girls it never seems to end.

You have some points here. I guess that once you crossed the Rubicon, it's hard to go back, and that's sad. That's probably kind of: WTF, i already did it, i've got nothing to lose. But also, some girls are probably really crazy, all they want is attention, thousands of dollars and a miracle that will never happen. I met such a girl once. All i wanted was a serious relationship with her but i was treated like a dog instead. I've been with many GG's and one TG and the only girl that i really fell in love with so long was that god damned TG, probably because she knew how to play with my feelings.. But she was very money hungry too.. Money was in the first place to her, me on the second.....or third. And despite the fact that i "donated" quite an amount to her, she was still doing crazy things to get more, behind my back. Sad.

[blahblahblah]

All good points. But the prices nowadays are downright crazy! 250 and up for an hour. How do you explain these costs?? Im glad I quit years ago.

Would you like to sell your body, to sell YOU and your dignity for cheap money, if you were forced to do it? Damn, dude, it's not cows we are talking about, it's human beings. Each time they do it they are risking their lives. No money in the world can pay that. And when i read Yasmin's(hopefully honest) post and look at the pic of her i realise what a tragedy her life has to be.

[girlyg]

I've got a 28 y/o beautiful single mother friend with a rare chronic disease that causes her acute pains sometimes. She's struggling with two jobs and trying to raise two kids. I shall tell her to start escorting since a: she's in need of A LOT OF money to pay living expenses b: since she's so busy all the time she doesn't have time to gloom herself that much so she can't get that much attention, satisfaction, affection from MANY MANY, A LOT OF, ALL men. she does have ONE nice bf who helps her to fix up things but not much financially though. They are just getting by. c: she grew up in housing project so her family don't have a penny to spare for her. her only brother is in prison. she can only hope that he leaves her alone. since she can't get support from her family she should start escorting. d: if she escorts, she can not only afford nicer places, better stuff, maybe even plastic surgeries, but also she can save enough money to send her kids to private schools even ivy league universities! ... Oh the good reasons go on and on and on. All single mothers, struggling actresses/actors, McDonal workers shall start escorting TODAY. Who hasn't got endless bills to pay, who doesn't want to sleep until 3:00 pm, who doesn't want plastic surgeries that make you look 10 years younger... Anybody who does not escort is just stupid.

[thebusiness]

I can see where you are coming from Yaz.. when I met my girl she was escorting and I had to deal with that for a while until I got her to quit! It was horrible and took a toll on her emotionally! It was extremely hard for me knowing that was how she was getting her money and that's what she was doing whenever I was gone. It fucked with her sexually too...made her not want to do it as much until she stopped! But if I were to meet you Yas, I wouldn't even want to have sex unless that was what you desired... I would simply want to talk to you and get to know what Yasmin Lee's world is like or anyother girl. I'm tired of guys looking at you and other girls as meat and sex tools for their own pleasures when they honestly wouldn't ever date you seriously! This is a vicious cycle... when will it end! But from a guy who loves a girl who went through what you're going through... it's hard for both sides!

Take care... and I hope you find that special happiness...who knows..it might be closer than you think!

I'm on my business phone...Tréo's are the shit...suggest everyone get one!

[Chica]

that's one of the best posts i've ever seen, it's all true, and people can't say it's wrong. if you're a TS and on less than average - average income, you're screwed and gotta do it. if your family doesn't like it, you got no one to turn to. so i guess im in the shit then. i don't wanna do escorting, i don't wanna appear on loads of websites (tho i nearly did thru desperation)... no wonder im always feeling down and think im fucked in the head