Who wants to be a tgirl forever?

[tsmirandameadows]

Are you kidding me? If you really think that, you exposure to transsexuals must be limited to crack addicted street hookers. In fact the average trans person probably has a lot more self esteem than the average straight person.

I can't say that has been my experience AT ALL, but then that's only my experience.

[bluesoul]

Wow, I mean lets not get delusional here! regardless of what surgery a trans woman has she will always be a trans woman(tgirl) and that will never ever change.

[Beauty.x.Beauty]

I get what you're saying and agree to a large extent. The only point I'd add is that several women of my acquaintance have had full srs and in terms of their own physiological and emotional perception of themselves it has enabled them to embrace the womanhood they've been seeking for many years.

It isn't what someone else perceives and thinks; it's how the girl sees herself that matters.

You are so right about that!

[Beauty.x.Beauty]

You got a good head on your shoulders. I like the fact that you feel comfortable in your own skin. Good self-esteem is definitely attractive.

Thank you!

[Rusty Eldora]

Originally Posted by gaysian71
Are you kidding me? If you really think that, you exposure to transsexuals must be limited to crack addicted street hookers. In fact the average trans person probably has a lot more self esteem than the average straight person.

I can't say that has been my experience AT ALL, but then that's only my experience.

Gaysian - My experience is that tgirls have tons of drive and determination, but can be insecure. I take it as they feel they have made tons of accomplishment, but the world around them doesn't acknowledge or accept what is achieved or that they are genuine. Also, as the artist for their constructed female persona, they see everything that needs improvement, not what is already great.

I use the constructed female persona from what Beauty said "Being a woman is a social construct" which struck me as so true. We all were taught to be a social construct as children, but did our elders pick the right one for all of us - No. Some of us now must work hard to get their correct construct and are still waiting for their certificate that they are a success.

[MrBill99]

Meagan, incredibly well stated, one of the most insightful perspectives on this subject I've read. I'm sure not everyone will agree with you but your confidence and intent on living a genuine rewarding life as you shines through and elevates this whole HA site. Thanks for contributing!

[giovanni_hotel]

BxB is awesome!!! Love her outlook.

It's really amazing for me as a trans-admirer/lover to see TS women who are cool within themselves and understand there are men out here who appreciate and accept them for who they are, in total.

[amberskyi]

im not fond of the notion that just because a girl desires srs that she not comfortable with herself and is a victim of her gender dysphoria. the reality is we are all suffering/coping with our dysphoria because if we werent we would of never transitioned at all.
because of medical reasons ill probably never get srs and i have to come to terms with that. when i was a little boy dreaming of being a little girl my vision didnt include have tits and a cock but being fully female like my sister and mother. given the choice i wouldnt be transgender at all and i desire to be a normal female as much as possible

[robertlouis]

im not fond of the notion that just because a girl desires srs that she not comfortable with herself and is a victim of her gender dysphoria. the reality is we are all suffering/coping with our dysphoria because if we werent we would of never transitioned at all.
because of medical reasons ill probably never get srs and i have to come to terms with that. when i was a little boy dreaming of being a little girl my vision didnt include have tits and a cock but being fully female like my sister and mother. given the choice i wouldnt be transgender at all and i desire to be a normal female as much as possible

I understand your discomfort with that notion Amber. There's also something of a blame culture on HA when guys who fantasise about the cock moan and mourn every time a girl gets srs. And I feel for you that it seems likely that you won't be able to fulfill your own dreams of full transition to that extent.

[amberskyi]

I understand your discomfort with that notion Amber. There's also something of a blame culture on HA when guys who fantasise about the cock moan and mourn every time a girl gets srs. And I feel for you that it seems likely that you won't be able to fulfill your own dreams of full transition to that extent.

maybe one day there will be some medical advancement that would make my dream a reality but that doesnt seem likely since my issues is mostly cosmetic and people probably arent really going to waste time trying to find a "cure"