Is anyone else frustrated with transsexual attraction?

[fred41]

There a some guys that lurk in the corners or wear hoodies...and some that don't. There are some boyfriends that girls have that they swear are "straight"...and later turn out to be "not so"...lol

[robertlouis]

I noticed the same thing.

I went to a trans club here in LA before...and all of the guys were hiding in the corners It was so awkward.

I have quite a few transsexual girls who are friends ant an entirely platonic level - it all started when I helped a close friend through the agonies of her transition some years ago. There's a huge difference between the relative few like me who first encountered the trauma of gender transition in real life, and the majority of guys here who arrived via porn and still see the girls largely through the prism of fantasy.

I don't criticise them for that, but I do get really angry with some of the thoughtless, immature and crassly insensitive things that posters say all too often.

[amberskyi]

[QUOTE=Flaco;1469333]Ahh, if it isn't Amberskyi back once again to play the victim and bitch about shit that doesn't concern her. Nothing in my post was offensive but of course you're back bitching as usual. I was not born liking Transwomen, I discovered them through porn. That is why I have problems seeing them as someone I can love, because my attraction for them came through lust. No one forced you to read my post, if you don't like my posts put me on your ignore list. Simple [QUOTE]

Anytime anyone undermines the girls and mines gender (which you do by calling ts woman "a gay lifestyle") im going to say something.
It's always going to offensive when you speak to a group of people about how you find sex with them shameful, deviant and etc. You've complained about this several times so you would think you would either stop or grow some balls and accept yourself.
And p.s. jack ass, this is a PUBLIC FORUM in which im a member...it all concerns me lol

[STARTUP999]

Wow after reading it, I felt like I wrote it myself lol! Totally get you dude. Wish there were more solutions to the problem

I could have written this too! Funny the example of Jessica Alba and Honey Foxx really struck me since I find them both very attractive but hands down on Honey

But I don't see it as a "problem" your attracted to who your attracted to. Its only a problem if you let others choose what sort of person you should be with, or feel guilty that your not measuring up to others expectations.

[Flaco]

[quote=amberskyi;1469441][QUOTE=Flaco;1469333]Ahh, if it isn't Amberskyi back once again to play the victim and bitch about shit that doesn't concern her. Nothing in my post was offensive but of course you're back bitching as usual. I was not born liking Transwomen, I discovered them through porn. That is why I have problems seeing them as someone I can love, because my attraction for them came through lust. No one forced you to read my post, if you don't like my posts put me on your ignore list. Simple

Anytime anyone undermines the girls and mines gender (which you do by calling ts woman "a gay lifestyle") im going to say something.
It's always going to offensive when you speak to a group of people about how you find sex with them shameful, deviant and etc. You've complained about this several times so you would think you would either stop or grow some balls and accept yourself.
And p.s. jack ass, this is a PUBLIC FORUM in which im a member...it all concerns me lol

Look at you trying your hardest to spin my words, Fail. Quote me where I said being with TS Girls is a Gay Lifestyle. Fact is, If I had a TS girlfriend I would never say being with her is Gay. But when you pay money to have Homosexual sex (I'm not trying to say the Girls are men, but do they not have Male parts?) and consistently do it like I have, that to me is living a Gay lifestyle. Where in that post did I say anything about sex with TS being shameful or deviant? You're trying way too hard to look for anything to be offended about. And as a matter of fact I'm offended by YOUR comments. You really said "Im tired of reading and being offended by your internal conflict . So my porn addiction doesn't matter? My internal conflicts don't matter? The fact that I'm not truly happy with the route I'm going doesn't matter? Who are YOU to sit on your judgment chair and say I can't speak about my issues because you'll take them offensively? Why do I have to be silenced because I said something you didn't like? Nothing, I said in my initial post was offensive (Or maybe you can quote exactly where you took offense). And so what if it's a Public Forum? Still, doesn't mean you can't put me on your ignore list.

[Vivian Dawn]

Dude, I gotta say, I hang out with a lot of faggots, and paying for sex with trannies is not really the kind of lifestyle most faggots lead! Maybe you're a little too far in the closet, if you can't even conceive of the wonderful breadth of faggotry waiting out there for you, if you could only just embrace it! Go! Open the door, and come forth--abandon the darkness of the closet and go buy an overpriced fair trade coffee to drink while you gossip about who is sleeping with who.

[buttslinger]

Any hominoid with an abundance of estrogen running through it's veins is endowed with the power of taking your attraction and turning it into a PLUS to their personal lifestyle. Ever since Barbie gave Ken that little red apple, Ken buys Barbie a Red Corvette and a Dream House.
Don't worry about your attraction to ANYBODY female, it's all been worked out long before you were born. Women have you sized up two seconds after meeting them. It's like a career for them.

Out of ALL THE PEOPLE walking around, can't you find just one that you can talk to and understand and like? Anybody over 21 is socially pressured to have sex!! Set that bullshit aside. If you feel alone when you're alone you're not alone.

[alyssaluxor]

I noticed the same thing.

I went to a trans club here in LA before...and all of the guys were hiding in the corners It was so awkward.

lol yeahhh thats what i noticed also if im meeting a TS admirer/chasers they often very shy and dont want to be seen near me. But if a guy is not into TS girls like my friends in my office before or friends in college and high school they dont have any hang ups being seen with TS girls

Most TS admirer/chasers have so much paranoia in their life living in the closet

[Rabbiteyes]

Ever since Barbie gave Ken that little red apple, Ken buys Barbie a Red Corvette and a Dream House.

Everyone knows Barbie is the one with the $$$.

A super model, doctor, astronaut, even the US president.

Ken is just a boy toy she keeps around.

[mrLemon]

ok tried to add quotes, but, cocked up there!!
original thread was 'frustrated with ts attraction'
originally no!! but depending on your situation this shouldn't be a problem!!
your dearly beloved is the love of your life.......apparently!!
the same as any type of porn! what you cant have, you want!!
its called fantasy!!
to have, or to have had, a situation with a trans would be very different!
we, myself included, would be quite happy with the scenario but how would everyone else feel?? family?? friends??
myself?? FUCK 'EM!! but that's me!!
if its taking your life over then you gotta take stock!!!!