Guys or Girls would you date a TS who had a Orchiectomy

[tsmandy]

I still would. But it would be a shame I would have no balls to suck. hehehe

While it is true that we have "no balls to suck", we have something else, which is (for me) where the testicles used to be a very sensitive area that feels incredibly good when sucked, licked or nibbled on.

[ottorocket]

If i had an orchi i'd have to have the Dr. put a zipper on it so i could put my extra house keys there. I'm always thinking....always.

[justatransgirl]

Ok - so what's the concensus here?

Apparently guys who see T-girls as girls, and not as cocks attached to boobs don't care if the boytoy works or not because that's not their interest.

And guys who want to be topped want a rock hard cock, preferably attached to a Brittany Spears look alike who doesn't take hormones.

Or am I misunderstanding things?

Giggle,
TS Jamie

[ANGELDUST]

OMg hell yeah you seem like a down to earth girl and are hot as hell ! love ya !

[Night Rider]

Of couse Kira....it wouldn't bother me

[jwalias1]

Here's a Question I was thinking about while I was drinking a few margaritas today. Is the abilty for a preop ts to orgasm and maintain erection important enough that you would not date a TS LTR if she had her testes removed. Is the cock more important to you than the girl.
do you need both, or is it irrelavant and you don't care. Ive noticed that first question I get asked is can you get hard or cum....

Yes I had Orchiectomy, (testes surgically removed) but i still do get erect, but no visable orgasm... are we now out even less desirable that total fuctional TS
does that make me untouchable to guys that like Transexual females.

Kira Harden

www.myspace.com/kiraharden
www.youtube.com/kiraharden
http://groups.yahoo.com/groups/kiraharden

Hi Kira! I have two answers but 1st let me explain my issues / preferences:

I'm attracted to the femininity of any woman. Regarding a TS it's erotic to the fullest! But I think it would be less enjoyable based on how I have been stimulated in the past. I have a friend now who has had an orchiectomy and this is how I came to this forum, simply because I wanted to know if a TS could still have an erection 'and' ejaculation.

You see the ejaculation is not a requirement but it is what I was exposed to in my 1st experience with a TS:

She was just as beautiful as you are Kira! We started the usual kissing and foreplay-stuff, and her flicking my chest opened some 'doors' in my head. Her tongue in my mouth forcibly made me think of how it would be if you put herself in and how wet things would get with me not being able to stop what I knew would eventually happen (I'm picturing it as it would happen to me if I were about to cum in someone's mouth) and then I led to where I was finally persuaded to give her oral. Since I had not done this before, the stimulation was from feeling her satisfaction and feeling it swelling in my mouth (she was on her back while I was in between her legs and she held me down by holding my hands) and being under a sheet while we are in the dark and the wetness of her precum and my not being able to resist this new good feeling I had never felt before. At some point all I could do was get aroused by her pulsating in my mouth and her gyrating movement of your beautiful body.

This went on for hours - I was lost at pleasing her as she let me now how good it felt, and 'that' turned me on as well. Finally I came and when I did...I ad noticed that she had cum many times in my mouth without my knowing it. The amount of cum as I took my mouth off of herself was huge load I was shocked at how I never detected her multiple cums (could have been 7 or 100 for all I knew!) but that was what I learned to expect from having that experience.

I did not do it much more after that but it is seared in my mind as to whenever I am with a TS - That she would enjoy ejaculating in my mouth over and over during oral. So here I have met a serious girl now who just told me that she had an orchiectomy in order to not have to take hormones. I have yet to be with her but all of a sudden I cannot wait to take my vacation in the Philippines and take her out and have her spend the night. I love how she says that we will have an 'unforgettable' experience so since I've always (though being strait) had these visions of being with a TS, I wanted to know about the cumming.

Now that I know this procedure prevents ejaculation, it makes me depressed that I was willing to experience that experience again with someone I can really get into things with, only to find that it won't happen. And it's not that I'm selfish or anything, it's just that it feels like a letdown and I don't know how to re-associate my first time without that experience.

The other problem I have, is that the 'partner' of the person with the orchiectomy - has NO WAY OF KNOWING if the TS is truly 'having orgasms!' - That is my pet peeve because the TS w/orchiectomy will be having a private session. She will know if I have came because she will SEE MY EJACULATION. Even a GG has ejaculations, so that's why I am taken aback by the 'lack of' display of the TS's satisfaction.

The only other way IMO a TS can make me forget about her not being able to ejaculate is by topping me until I might cum. And 'even in doing that', I have been told that a guy can 'feel' when his mate has cum inside of him and that feeling the TS cumming inside of him can make him go out of his mind. So again, I'm associating the ejaculation process in my experience. But much of my learned satisfaction has been from SEEING her cum or even tasting / feeling it. With an orchiectomy this is just not possible. There HAS to be some way of that TS 'showing' her body has been pleased and it is by her ejaculating.

I still have to think about things with my new friend, because (although she did what she did for good reasons), it seems our whole lovemaking process will only be determined by my cumming, and not by hers ;-(

[phandabehr]

Yes...

[RallyCola]

more thread necromancy!!!!

the presence or lack of balls is not a consideration if i were trying to date a girl...what matters is her looks, personality, intelligence and demeanor.

if i was talking about hiring an escort though, that's different because i might only hire a girl that is fully functional because that is a single discrete act and when it comes to escorts, only her health, looks and ability to act interested in me matter...i couldn't give a fuck about what she is really like outside of the hour i am paying her for.

[Dark passenger]

I would feel like something is missing. Don't get me wrong, I love a beautiful woman. I've had issues in my past marriage because even tho she was gorgeous, I've always been turned on by fully functional TS women. Yes looks and compatability are important, and I would still date a girl who has gone thru an orhi, but I'd still crave the turn on from the functioning parts. The reason TS women blew my mind in the first place is because from the outside all I saw was a gorgeous woman, but when she got undressed, the cock blew me away. I couldn't believe my eyes. Everyone has somethin that turn them on in a woman, nice eyes, nice ass or tits or whatever. Jus my opinion but I'd feel like I wasn't fully satisfied sexually without the rock hard cock or cum shots.

[KiraHarden]

I would feel like something is missing. Don't get me wrong, I love a beautiful woman. I've had issues in my past marriage because even tho she was gorgeous, I've always been turned on by fully functional TS women. Yes looks and compatability are important, and I would still date a girl who has gone thru an orhi, but I'd still crave the turn on from the functioning parts. The reason TS women blew my mind in the first place is because from the outside all I saw was a gorgeous woman, but when she got undressed, the cock blew me away. I couldn't believe my eyes. Everyone has somethin that turn them on in a woman, nice eyes, nice ass or tits or whatever. Jus my opinion but I'd feel like I wasn't fully satisfied sexually without the rock hard cock or cum shots.

Thats cool.you love and need hard cock and cum more than i do to be in a great relationship.