A Few Pro-tips for gaining the attention of TS Models

[ctcuteguynextdoor]

Don't be stingy, a lot of transgender people can't make a living otherwise......share the wealth!

[zphyer6]

That's a decent list if you're looking for Transgender escorts.

On the other hand if you just want to date Transgender women (not as a client) the list changes substantially.

1. Be a top. Probably the most important. Most TS admirers are bottoms or verse. Obviously a TG girl that goes through the trouble of transitioning probably doesn't want to fuck guys or have one that is obsessed with an appendage she probably doesn't like all that much. Yes, of course there are top girls, but they're a rare minority and there are loads of bottom dudes. Not good odds.

2. Be young, hung, and attractive. In my experience TG girls are more attuned to visual stimuli than regular girls and care a lot about a guys appearance. Just saying.

3. Date regular girls as well and don't become to hung up on Transwomen. This actually makes you more attractive to a TG girl. How many regular girls I've dated and what I liked about them are usually the first questions a TG girl that is interested in me will ask. It makes them feel good if they can maintain an illusion that a straight guy wants to be with them. I'm not trying to fool myself of course. I know ultimately I'm bi-sexual and they're not biologically female, but if the fantasy makes her happy then I'm fine with it.

4. As for the spending money part why would you spend more on a TG girl than you would on a regular girl of equal quality? Well, unless your a bottom of course lol.

5. As for dating escorts, in the long term it's not a good idea. Unfortunately in the TG world a lot of girls will have worked as escorts or been in porn at some point in their lives. That's just the way it is. I've found escorts are good for shorter, less serious relationships though. Some I've transitioned to dating after seeing them as a client a few times. That means I stopped putting money on the desk before I fucked them, started paying them in attention as a boy friend and going out in public with them. You'll always pay in some form. I've also dated TG girls that were relatively normal and have never been escorts. Those relationships were not surprisingly more stable.

[AshlynCreamher]

Don't be stingy, a lot of transgender people can't make a living otherwise......share the wealth!

I respectfully disagree with this - the first half anyways

[nysprod]

2. Be young, hung, and attractive. In my experience TG girls are more attuned to visual stimuli than regular girls and care a lot about a guys appearance. Just saying.

Absolute nonesense. For some girls, not only does age have nothing to do with it but they actually prefer older guys. I'm 49 and when i started on grindr i met an 18 y.o. tg and went out with her for about a year. Then in October I met one who's 22 and we been going steady since.

Of course it's easier if you're young and hung but don't let age hold you back...unless the girl specifies an age group or ethnic preference other than what I am, if I like her she'll get a message from me.

[DeseosEscandulosos]

So the only rule is that all the rules are incorrect? For every rule, there's someone who can prove it wrong?

Sometimes I think that all rules do is make you more confident, so that you'll keep trying. And if you keep trying, you'll get someone's attention. But that's a rule, so it must be wrong.

[MrFanti]

4. As for the spending money part why would you spend more on a TG girl than you would on a regular girl of equal quality? Well, unless your a bottom of course lol.

Being over 40 myself,
I've noticed that the available pool of what you call "quality" women (genetic or transgender) increases with the amount of income that one makes. Which is understandable because chances are, if a male hasn't established himself by age 40, then why on earth would a woman want a long term relationship?

The dating games played in the 20s disappear in the 40s....and the truth is that if one has a solid financial foundation, the better their chances.
Another one of those truths that you don't have to like, but it is what it is....

[gaysian71]

So the only rule is that all the rules are incorrect? For every rule, there's someone who can prove it wrong?

Sometimes I think that all rules do is make you more confident, so that you'll keep trying. And if you keep trying, you'll get someone's attention. But that's a rule, so it must be wrong.

Yup. Kinda like that.
But the only real rule is that trans women like their gentic counterparts come in all shapes and sizes, have all different things that attract them to men... or women and prefer different cock sizes and incomes. So the bottom lines is as long as you have a little game, you can find someone to date you. If you can't find someone to date you, you should probably take a good deep look at yourself.

And lastly, Wendy was referring to being with a professional model type girl. I have never been with one, but her tips sound reasonable.

[Jericho]

The dating games played in the 20s disappear in the 40s....and the truth is that if one has a solid financial foundation, the better their chances.
Another one of those truths that you don't have to like, but it is what it is....

In other words, they've had their fill of badboyz, sown their wild oats!

[nysprod]

if a male hasn't established himself by age 40, then why on earth would a woman want a long term relationship?

For gg's, a man in his 40's who's never been married, even if he's well established, sends a red flag. Being a divorced man in his 40's, with a kid, seems to have worked as a positive.

[MrFanti]

For gg's, a man in his 40's who's never been married, even if he's well established, sends a red flag. Being a divorced man in his 40's, with a kid, seems to have worked as a positive.

I haven't seen any "red flags" - especially from women who don't want any children. Gotta' watch the divorces though....IMHO, anything over one divorce can send up a flag as to "what's wrong with this guy, 2 failed marriages..."

However, your point is taken....