Bad experience - never put a TS escort in phone contacts

[Nigelt822]

I had a very bad experience tonight. We arranged to meet via text but I ran a bit late then couldn't find a cashpoint. After suggesting I was an idiot we had an argument so I decided not to meet. I then received numerous calls which I ignored.
I then received whatsapp messages showing me my Facebook profile including my friends and my company name. She then said she was talking to them, so effectively blackmail.
This all came from me entering her details into my contacts which gave her access to my surname. Lesson learnt - NEVER ADD SOMEONE TO PHONE CONTACTS if you don't know them well.
I decided to bite the bullet and continue to ignore her, but as I'm divorced there isn't any real consequences just a bit of embarrassment if she did contact them.
So the end result, although I know there are some lovely ladies (Camila Matioli for example), I will not be meeting anyone else for a very long time !
I won't mention the persons name to avoid further consequences, but I thought it worth mentioning to people on here to be cautious in your activities !! I also understand I didn't behave perfectly and partly and idiot but really didn't deserve this attitude and behaviour..

[Laphroaig]

Sorry to hear about that.

It's things like this which illustrate why a separate (basic) punting phone is essential in this game. On modern smartphones, phone contacts, facebook, whatsapp, etc all "talk" to each other. Add in syncing with other devices, PC/tablet/mac, etc and any slip up is a potential recipe for disaster.

[goodfellla]

This happened to me couple of years ago during online cam session with a TS girl. Agreed to pay with paypal and have session in skype. I transferred the money and we had our short session. From the email account in paypal she somehow manage to find my facebook account, company that i work for and friendslist including my family. She started blackmailing me for money with couple of nude pic of me which she captured during the session. I was cursing myself and I am helpless as she is from different country. I was not myself for couple of weeks as the blackmail continued and I bought some time. She gave her address to transfer money, so I came up with a plan, I threatened her if she keeps blackmailing ill contact police cyber wing in her place and register a complaint for cyber extortion. Somehow she bought that, since then using fake names and account for all kind of fun. Never reveal your surname, can find your online presence easily and get all the information, also good to search with your name in google and see what all information you see, also tighten up security level in social media sites.

[Nigelt822]

Interesting that I'm not alone, good advice too so hopefully helps me and other punters !

[Fitzcarraldo]

This happened to me couple of years ago during online cam session with a TS girl. Agreed to pay with paypal and have session in skype. I transferred the money and we had our short session. From the email account in paypal she somehow manage to find my facebook account, company that i work for and friendslist including my family. She started blackmailing me for money with couple of nude pic of me which she captured during the session. I was cursing myself and I am helpless as she is from different country. I was not myself for couple of weeks as the blackmail continued and I bought some time. She gave her address to transfer money, so I came up with a plan, I threatened her if she keeps blackmailing ill contact police cyber wing in her place and register a complaint for cyber extortion. Somehow she bought that, since then using fake names and account for all kind of fun. Never reveal your surname, can find your online presence easily and get all the information, also good to search with your name in google and see what all information you see, also tighten up security level in social media sites.

Have you ever seen Punch-Drunk Love? http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0272338/?ref_=fn_tt_tt_8

[natina]

Why are you in the Closet?

[Nikka]

we need the name

[skirtrustler]

OPSEC 101 .. use a burner 'fun' phone and a Pre Pay SIM. Since you are never going to ever use it for anything else a second hand cheap android phone will work.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Operations_security

Even your most trusted contacts may lose their phone. Also remember that if THEY put your number into their address book and use whatsapp etc etc, or use any app that shares their address book, then they are sharing the fact they know you.

[last_stop]

You actually have it reversed. Adding someone to your phone contacts does not give them access to your Facebook/WhatsApp/social media profiles. It's when the other person adds your phone number to their contacts that they have access to any social media accounts linked to your phone number.

Easy solution.. Use a burner phone, second sim card, Google Voice etc. To use a British expression, this is "Punting 101". Every John should know not to use their mainline to contact a hooker. And if you do, ,.... Nah just don't do it.

[last_stop]

So your advice should actually be "Never call any escort (TS or otherwise) with your personal phone number". Also applies to your drug dealer, bookie or any other dodgy characters you might be associated with.