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01-22-2020 #1
My Trans Lover-Friend has Detransistioned, now what?
I've been involved with a pre-op trans for 15 years. We have never had a monogomous relationship, she has been more like a misstress to me. We lost contact for about 6 months then, I saw her on Facebook live and now she dresses like a man. She even cut her hair! I have not talked to her in person yet and I'm wondering what I should say or do when I meet with her again. I have contacted her through text via her sister's phone (says she lost her phone but her voicemail is still active). She wants to meet but I'm confused by her appearance. Does anybody know what might be happening here?
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01-22-2020 #2
Re: My Trans Lover-Friend has Detransistioned, now what?
you can both go drink a beer and play pool like men
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01-22-2020 #3
Re: My Trans Lover-Friend has Detransistioned, now what?
Well, that's about all we can do. I'm not having sex with the new look going on...
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01-23-2020 #4
Re: My Trans Lover-Friend has Detransistioned, now what?
Just be respectful of his/her decision
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01-23-2020 #5
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Re: My Trans Lover-Friend has Detransistioned, now what?
Your relationship will just be something different, maybe even friends.
Look Marge, I'm reading The Economist, did you know Indonesia is at a crossroads?
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01-23-2020 #6
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Re: My Trans Lover-Friend has Detransistioned, now what?
Interesting... Aren't you even a little attracted to him? After all, you had a relationship for 15 years
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01-24-2020 #7
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Re: My Trans Lover-Friend has Detransistioned, now what?
It is their decision and if them being a pre-op trans was what drew you to them, then just be friends and find someone else. Apparently they moved on with their life and so should you..
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01-24-2020 #8
Re: My Trans Lover-Friend has Detransistioned, now what?
Congratulate him and wish him well. Express gratitude for the time you shared.
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01-24-2020 #9
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Re: My Trans Lover-Friend has Detransistioned, now what?
If it's important to you to understand what your ex has done I don't seen any alternative to meeting them and discussing it. If you cared about this person, and it wasn't just about sex, then why would you not be willing to at least hear what they have to say?
1 out of 1 members liked this post.Last edited by filghy2; 01-24-2020 at 05:12 AM.
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01-24-2020 #10
Re: My Trans Lover-Friend has Detransistioned, now what?
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