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    Default A Question about "Topping" in relationships.

    Something that has always intrigued me is within a personal relationship with a guy, if you have one with a guy, would you be opened to topping that guy or is that something which is a no no for you.

    I ask this question because as an exclusive "Top" male and reading this forum it seems many of the guys on here are more into bottoming and sucking, just as long as its a "TG lady"

    Within all of this one must separate the business aspect of things such as porn and escorting to the real life scenarios of what you girls may or may not actually desire. It is this that I am interested in getting an idea of. If you are in a relationship with a guy and he asks you to top him via fucking or sucking would that influence you and how so. TG ladies responses only please, I know where the dudes stand for the most part.


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    Default Re: A Question about "Topping" in relationships.

    Quote Originally Posted by macfan
    Something that has always intrigued me is within a personal relationship with a guy, if you have one with a guy, would you be opened to topping that guy or is that something which is a no no for you.

    I ask this question because as an exclusive "Top" male and reading this forum it seems many of the guys on here are more into bottoming and sucking, just as long as its a "TG lady"

    Within all of this one must separate the business aspect of things such as porn and escorting to the real life scenarios of what you girls may or may not actually desire. It is this that I am interested in getting an idea of. If you are in a relationship with a guy and he asks you to top him via fucking or sucking would that influence you and how so. TG ladies responses only please, I know where the dudes stand for the most part.
    No! I never would top my BF I would consider a BF giving me oral, if he was into me as a person and not a cock bandit.


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    Default Re: A Question about "Topping" in relationships.

    Quote Originally Posted by macfan
    Something that has always intrigued me is within a personal relationship with a guy, if you have one with a guy, would you be opened to topping that guy or is that something which is a no no for you.


    I ask this question because as an exclusive "Top" male and reading this forum it seems many of the guys on here are more into bottoming and sucking, just as long as its a "TG lady"
    Hey, I'm a Top guy myself. Although I have very little experience with a
    "TG Lady" I told my first (Actually only) experience with a TS that if she thought she was going to bottom me or whatever you wanna call it, she had another thing coming.

    Within all of this one must separate the business aspect of things such as porn and escorting to the real life scenarios of what you girls may or may not actually desire.

    I really don't think many know what pleases them. When you're used to be the dominator and you meet someone else that is accustomed to pleasing, you'll find yourself situation where both are trying to please the other.

    Actually, I never knew the majority guys want to be screwed by a TS.

    It is this that I am interested in getting an idea of.
    I am as well. C'mon ladies there are guys out there that don't want to be on the receiving end of things. We would like to know what it is.


    If you are in a relationship with a guy and he asks you to top him via fucking or sucking would that influence you and how so. TG ladies responses only please, I know where the dudes stand for the most part.
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    Default Re: A Question about "Topping" in relationships.

    Quote Originally Posted by 56k
    Actually, I never knew the majority guys want to be screwed by a TS.
    Itīs a whole different thing when it comes to an actual relationship. This board - as said a thousand times now - is porn - centric and to a high degree about TS-escorting. In that respect, in a "client-provider" relation, I am sure the majority of guys want to be bottoms.

    Furthermore, I suspect you wonīt get many answers at all, I just donīt think many TS who *would* or have dicked down their BF will admit that on this board - for several reasons.

    As from my personal experience, even as the guy in charge, be occasionally prepared for some surprising moves on the part of the TS when she getīs her freak on.


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    I am a 100% top guy myself. I am only attracted to the TS's because so many of them are so damn sexy and feminine, more so than many GG's I know and date. As far as their equipment goes, get that damn thing out of my sight....LOL........


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    Quote Originally Posted by S6XN9NE
    I am a 100% top guy myself. I am only attracted to the TS's because so many of them are so damn sexy and feminine, more so than many GG's I know and date. As far as their equipment goes, get that damn thing out of my sight....LOL........
    Yeah baby


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    Hells 2 the no.

    I realize that I don't have a dick,
    so it's almost a moot point.

    But there will be no strap ons, dildoes
    up his ass, fingers, cucumbers, or any
    other objects placed up your ass by me.

    If that's what you seek, then you're the
    wrong man for me, and I'm the wrong
    woman for you.

    There's other things that I'm not crazy
    about sexually, but I might bend to that
    to keep the relationship fresh.

    But me fucking you, ain't one.



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    Never have topped a bio-boy, never will. My ex-fiance and I tried damn near everything and even though he was top in the relationship and generally in bed, we tried things. I've shoved many a toy up his ass and cunt, just as he has me. But those days are over.

    Yeah, I had my first straight BB boyfriend tell me that he was still interested in me, even though I have a dick but there was no way it was going up his bum. At least we agreed on that.

    I think the issue is demasculinization of the man and masculinization if the woman. I like men, fit, masculine, honorable, dominant (but respectful) men. I don't want to have my man get on all fours and be like, "oooh, fuck me baby!" No, I want my man to throw me on the bed, pin me down and fuck me raw.

    Same goes for oral, I am not going to stand up with my man on his knees and be like, "suck it, bitch" and skullfuck him, ick! But I'll lay down on the bed, legs spread and he can lick my cock like he licks a clit. It's not that I hate my penis, it's the power dynamic involved.

    (Didn't we have this thread recently?)


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    Quote Originally Posted by tgirlzoe

    I think the issue is demasculinization of the man and masculinization if the woman. I like men, fit, masculine, honorable, dominant (but respectful) men.
    Very well put and I agree.


    Quote Originally Posted by tgirlzoe
    I don't want to have my man get on all fours and be like, "oooh, fuck me baby!"
    Never

    Quote Originally Posted by tgirlzoe
    Same goes for oral, I am not going to stand up with my man on his knees and be like, "suck it, bitch" and skullfuck him, ick
    Never

    Quote Originally Posted by tgirlzoe
    But I'll lay down on the bed, legs spread and he can lick my cock like he licks a clit. It's not that I hate my penis, it's the power dynamic involved.
    Thats possible if hes not just into me for the dick, it has to be with someone I'm in a relationship with

    Quote Originally Posted by tgirlzoe
    (Didn't we have this thread recently?)
    Yes, quite a few acually


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