Am I a 'bad' person?

**tsntx** · 05-11-2008

i just think this post should serve as a warning to all the chasers wasting girls times by calling and hanging up or flaking out on their set appts or guys too chicken shit to get w/ the girls they want.... eventually you WILL miss out on what you want and wont have the option of going back... so stop stalling.

**KiraHarden** · 05-11-2008

Originally Posted by tsntx

i just think this post should serve as a warning to all the chasers wasting girls times by calling and hanging up or flaking out on their set appts or guys too chicken shit to get w/ the girls they want.... eventually you WILL miss out on what you want and wont have the option of going back... so stop stalling.

Ditto... When it's gone, it's gone.

**BeardedOne** · 05-12-2008

Originally Posted by tsntx

i just think this post should serve as a warning to all the chasers wasting girls times by calling and hanging up or flaking out on their set appts or guys too chicken shit to get w/ the girls they want.... eventually you WILL miss out on what you want and wont have the option of going back... so stop stalling.

Hmm...I hadn't expected that my random soul-searching would turn into a Public Service Announcement, but so be it.

In this case it was a mix of schedule, distance (She's in another city), and finance, none of which seemed to flow my way. I also have shitty timing, as I was actively 'shopping' at one point a while back, but it was during her hiatus...renovation, as it were.

I still want to meet her though, as her face is that captivating to me and she has shown a great sense of talent and humor in a couple of brief vids I've seen of her. I'm looking at a possible foray to that city later in the summer (Unless gas tops $10 a gallon, which is not impossible) and may be able to ring her up then. Granted, it will likely be the most expensive 'hanging out' I've ever done, as the intimacy factor significantly changes due to mechanics, but her image is =THAT= inspiring to me.

Who knows? Maybe I'll click to New Pussy as much as I did to Pussy Classic.

Personally, I'm at the point where I'll entertain any conversation that doesn't begin with "Meow?" and end with "Hiss!".

As to what Jen said above:

Really, guyz, don't fart around with the gurls. Either you want to meet them or you don't. Life is short and cruel and you only have one chance to discover new things and find some modicum of happiness on this sewer farm we call Earth.

I missed a great opportunity with this particular gurl because life dealt me a low hand and I kept my thumb up my ass instead of finding a way to make it happen. But I truly intend to follow up and see if maybe she is 'The One' that makes it all right, no matter the plumbing situation. Worst that could happen is that she drags me to the occasional chick-flick and gets my sleeve all soggy.

Nike has the right idea: Just do it.

Oh, and don't be a dweeb about it.

**Bic** · 05-13-2008

i wouldnt say your a bad person at all. look at it this way, its like you missed your window. like you took the blue pill and now worder what would happen if you took the red pill. but you cant blame her for doing what she was eventually going to do anyway. it is her choice after all

**BeardedOne** · 05-13-2008

[quote="Bic"]i wouldnt say your a bad person at all. look at it this way, its like you missed your window. like you took the blue pill and now worder what would happen if you took the red pill. but you cant blame her for doing what she was eventually going to do anyway. it is her choice after all[/quo

Oh, I certainly don't fault her for what she wanted/needed to do to make her life whole.

My grief is over how shallow I am (Or feel) for missing her 'T'. I've yet to be in a relationship situation where this has been an issue (Though I have known a fair number of gurls who have transitioned, we were not intimately involved in any way).

I guess it's something I need to suss out so as to not drag it into the relationship (Even if it is with an escort). It really isn't fair to either of us if I have such unresolved issues or questions.

Though I do like the blue pill/red pill analogy. I just had to add some twists.

**dc_guy_75** · 05-13-2008

Bearded, you're bad, you're bad, you know it.

I think its like the equivalent of having an ex-girlfriend who gets married; there's nothing you can do now.

The "guilt" you feel is simply because you like cock... (as does everyone here), time passes, things are different, as yes, it could be a little ddisconcerting sometimes.