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Thread: Am I a 'bad' person?
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05-11-2008 #11
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i just think this post should serve as a warning to all the chasers wasting girls times by calling and hanging up or flaking out on their set appts or guys too chicken shit to get w/ the girls they want.... eventually you WILL miss out on what you want and wont have the option of going back... so stop stalling.
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05-11-2008 #12Originally Posted by tsntx
"Of all losses, time is the most irrecoverable for it can never be redeemed.”
"To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all. "
"Ladies its not the dress that makes you look fat, its the fat that makes you look fat "
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05-12-2008 #13Originally Posted by tsntx
In this case it was a mix of schedule, distance (She's in another city), and finance, none of which seemed to flow my way. I also have shitty timing, as I was actively 'shopping' at one point a while back, but it was during her hiatus...renovation, as it were.
I still want to meet her though, as her face is that captivating to me and she has shown a great sense of talent and humor in a couple of brief vids I've seen of her. I'm looking at a possible foray to that city later in the summer (Unless gas tops $10 a gallon, which is not impossible) and may be able to ring her up then. Granted, it will likely be the most expensive 'hanging out' I've ever done, as the intimacy factor significantly changes due to mechanics, but her image is =THAT= inspiring to me.
Who knows? Maybe I'll click to New Pussy as much as I did to Pussy Classic. Personally, I'm at the point where I'll entertain any conversation that doesn't begin with "Meow?" and end with "Hiss!".
As to what Jen said above:
Really, guyz, don't fart around with the gurls. Either you want to meet them or you don't. Life is short and cruel and you only have one chance to discover new things and find some modicum of happiness on this sewer farm we call Earth.
I missed a great opportunity with this particular gurl because life dealt me a low hand and I kept my thumb up my ass instead of finding a way to make it happen. But I truly intend to follow up and see if maybe she is 'The One' that makes it all right, no matter the plumbing situation. Worst that could happen is that she drags me to the occasional chick-flick and gets my sleeve all soggy.
Nike has the right idea: Just do it.
Oh, and don't be a dweeb about it.
"In times of universal deceit, telling the truth will be a revolutionary act." - George Orwell
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05-13-2008 #14
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i wouldnt say your a bad person at all. look at it this way, its like you missed your window. like you took the blue pill and now worder what would happen if you took the red pill. but you cant blame her for doing what she was eventually going to do anyway. it is her choice after all
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05-13-2008 #15
[quote="Bic"]i wouldnt say your a bad person at all. look at it this way, its like you missed your window. like you took the blue pill and now worder what would happen if you took the red pill. but you cant blame her for doing what she was eventually going to do anyway. it is her choice after all[/quo
Oh, I certainly don't fault her for what she wanted/needed to do to make her life whole.
My grief is over how shallow I am (Or feel) for missing her 'T'. I've yet to be in a relationship situation where this has been an issue (Though I have known a fair number of gurls who have transitioned, we were not intimately involved in any way).
I guess it's something I need to suss out so as to not drag it into the relationship (Even if it is with an escort). It really isn't fair to either of us if I have such unresolved issues or questions.
Though I do like the blue pill/red pill analogy. I just had to add some twists.
"In times of universal deceit, telling the truth will be a revolutionary act." - George Orwell
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05-13-2008 #16
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Bearded, you're bad, you're bad, you know it.
I think its like the equivalent of having an ex-girlfriend who gets married; there's nothing you can do now.
The "guilt" you feel is simply because you like cock... (as does everyone here), time passes, things are different, as yes, it could be a little ddisconcerting sometimes.
Look Marge, I'm reading The Economist, did you know Indonesia is at a crossroads?
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05-13-2008 #17
Re: Am I a 'bad' person?
Originally Posted by BeardedOneOriginally Posted by BeardedOne
Any guy with that many cats is a bad person
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05-13-2008 #18Any guy with that many cats is a bad person
I think its like the equivalent of having an ex-girlfriend who gets married; there's nothing you can do now.
"In times of universal deceit, telling the truth will be a revolutionary act." - George Orwell
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05-14-2008 #19
Yes, you're bad. All supervillians have beards.
I don't suffer from insanity, I enjoy every minute of it ...
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05-14-2008 #20
Ah General, welcome to the land of Oxymoronia: cock-centric omnisexual indeed!
You're not bad, you're just drawn that way.
I know where you're coming from. I love cock, and I love women. Hence I love women with cocks (top or bottom, either/or). But I have, many a time, ventured into the realm of "new pussy" and I love it as much as I do "pussy classic." In fact, just this past Saturday I had a great visit with my Vietnamese post-op "girlfriend" (she loves to introduce me to her friends and even family as her "boyfriend") and once again got to enjoy her, erm, charms. Try it, you'll like it.
(I still like tgirl cock the best, though. Just the way I'm wired.)