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Thread: i was born bisexual , rofl
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11-15-2009 #21Originally Posted by blacktgirls
What I personally belive is that when it comes to any complex behavior there is an element of biology, choice, and chance. For example a man can be biologically born gay, he or she has a choice on how to express that (they either come out and embrace a gay identity, or go on the down low). Sheer chance comes into play because, suppose a man is attracted to men but finds the occasional woman attractive too? Say he's 90% more likely to be with a man than a woman is he bissexual? Is he gay?
I have advocated this very expalination for years. That all of these things are discrete spectra, neither bimodal like a coin toss, or smoothly varied like a rainbow, more like a box of crayons. A variety of colors or shades of gender and sexuality combined in a large but finite number of ways.
I guess villification is my award for laying down too much natural philosophy.
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11-15-2009 #22Originally Posted by BrendaQG
- on the bright side Brenda , you have an intelligence that even i am envious of and an education that most people never achieve .
and that's why the cubs will never win the series
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11-15-2009 #23
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11-15-2009 #24
Bi-sexuals don't have much community per se, but the queer community is large and very open to fluidity with gender expression and sexuality. Generally queers are supportive of each other fucking whomever as long as they are not straight. Most people that are truly bi-sexual end up in queer community at some point, because it is really the only place that makes sense.
I'm really lucky to have queer community. Queer community is also generally very supportive of polyamory, gender fuck, BDSM, and most importantly for me sex workers. So many of my queer family has at one point or another been involved in the sex trade (largely because we have less issues confusing sex with love and less hangups about sex in general).
I tell straight people I'm bi-sexual but thats kind of a misnomer. I would never be in a relationship with a straight man or woman for that matter. I love fucking men and women regardless of their sexualities (kind of a prerequisite for sex work), but I only date queer people.
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11-15-2009 #25Originally Posted by blacktgirls
The logic does not hold that this would make it a choice.
A great many things can happen after birth that are not a choice- like developmental problems (I don't mean to imply that bisexuality is a pathology- more trying to say that the body can do things people have no control over after birth), or socialization (which acts subliminally over time). Most people are socialized to some extent without even realizing it, thus the effects of which are not always under ones' control... or not under control in all ways at all times. Whether this be cultural norms like clothing/fashion, or mannerisms, or language- how people act has a lot to do with their environment, and not always as the result from stopping to question ones' practices.
Do you know why you talk the way you do? Does everyone with an accent choose to have an accent or was that simply the effects of their environment, out of their influence?
And maybe its easier to withdraw from life
With all of its misery and wretched lies
If we're dead when tomorrow's gone
The Big Machine will just move on
Still we cling afraid we'll fall
Clinging like the memory which haunts us all
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11-15-2009 #26
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Re: i was born bisexual , rofl
Originally Posted by Distance
(10, 9, 8, 7, 6. 5....)
Oh, and bisexual is an activity status, you moron. It means that you're generally attracted to more than one gender. BTW straight guys would NEVER even bother posting what you just did. They wouldn't care, you fag.
Btw, don't keep using that laughing icon every time you say something stupid. People will start to think you're gay AND retarded, and that's no way for a queer like you to go through life. We already know you can't speak or spell in English well. You're really batting zero so far.
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11-16-2009 #27
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Originally Posted by archineer
But if he's bi and creeping then that's twice as many people I have to be
on guard for.
I can keep him pussy whipped and keep the hoochies away from him, but
if he is craving dick that he is out of luck, cause I'm not doing a strap on.
As to the being out in public, that's never been an issue.
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11-16-2009 #28
That chart is honestly horribly, horribly retarded.
No offense, Peggy.
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11-16-2009 #29
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Originally Posted by SarahG
I've got a New York accent and hand gestures, because I'm a native New
Yorker , even thoough I've lived and or been around the world.
What's interesting is that family and my Mother's friends often confuse me
for her on the phone, which is great, cause they could be confusing me
for my Father.
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11-16-2009 #30Originally Posted by archineer
Implicit in his statement is the assumption the transsexual woman is somehow "less than"... that her trans-status taints her and makes her less desirable to be seen in public with.
The reality is that most of the guys here are less likely to find a mutually loving relationship with a transwoman than vice-versa.