What do you consider Gay?

[MrsKellyPierce]

Transsexuals your opinion - and give your stance on why!

Men your opinion - give your stance on why!

What do you consider gay?

Some consider bottoming gay.

Some considering sucking a tranny cock gay.

Some consider if they don't have boobs gay.

Some consider wording and how one acts gay.

Lets try to have an adult conversation with out flame throwing!

[Yoite]

The balls touching

[Anubis1779]

being attracted to males

[rwmtenn]

IMO, it can't be defined by the variables of a certain situation...

Boobs/No Boobs
Bottom/Top
Sucking/Being Sucked

If you are a male and you engage (or want to engage) in sexual activities with another:

Male
Transexual
Transvestite
CD

That to me is gay....nothing wrong with it, but it is gay.

There are a lot of guys out there, like myself, that are repulsed by the thought of being with a "man", but would jump at the chance to sleep with a transexual...

I guess some guys want to tell themselves that isn't gay....

While it may FEEL a little LESS gay...it isn't. IMO, you can't be more or less gay. lol

[rwmtenn]

the balls touching

haha!

[giovanni_hotel]

I would never consider what someone else does with a tranny, 'gay'.

I personally have a hang-up with bottoming, and if a girl doesn't vibe me as feminine, boobs are not, I can't get with that.

At this point, I couldn't care less if someone is gay or not, sexually speaking.

People who are constantly obsessed with counting up who 'faggots' are on HA, are either demented IMO, or still very conflicted about their sexuality.

I've learned that trannies have this amazing ability to let you still keep your masculinity after you've just gone down on them.

A really cool trick.

One of the reasons I luv the girls so much!!!

[audifan]

Good thread! Thanks Ms Kelly!

As a guy; I think "gay" is wanting sex with someone who is the same sex.

So for a man, I think "gay" includes guys, CD's, transvestites, femboys, androgynous types, and F-to-M transsexuals who present as male.

I don't think that a pre/non-op M-to-F transsexual who truly presents full-time as female is the same sex as me. And if that's just a delusion then I guess the alternative is I'm some kind of limited and specific bi. Either way, as far as I'm concerned she's a girl, just with slightly different plumbing.

And I think a post-op transsexual simply is just a girl.

[Jackal]

I think gay is an attraction for the same sex but not the opposite sex. Bisexual is attraction to both. Straight is opposite sex without attraction to the same. I don't see why transsexual women/transwomen are any less women than non-transsexual women. Now, if a guy is involved with gender variant, cd's, or transvestite individuals, I think that is a hazy area in terms of labels. As a transattracted guy, I like to use the term pansexual for myself(although I know that doesnt apply to all trans-attracted guys), I've found individuals across the sex/gender-board attractive at times, although not necessarily in terms of engaging in sexual/romantic relations. That's me, though.

[dopearope]

Transsexuals your opinion - and give your stance on why!

Men your opinion - give your stance on why!

What do you consider gay?

Some consider bottoming gay.

Some considering sucking a tranny cock gay.

Some consider if they don't have boobs gay.

Some consider wording and how one acts gay.

Lets try to have an adult conversation with out flame throwing!

First up, lets be truthful here..all the guys here are attracted to the girls cos they have a cock..so there is no point even fighting that. so playing with it and touching it is obviously going to happen.

however..bottoming is GAY...like 100% homosexual..you are not a man if you take dicks up your ass period. sucking dick too.

[Amsterdamage]

what happened to 'bi'?

i think someone is only gay when he/she can/will only kiss/have sex/develop feelings for someone of the same sex. anything else i'd consider 'bi' or 'adventurous' lol

for instance, i appreciate the view and touch of a nice dick, as a sexual organ. however, i'm only physically/sexually attracted to people who i could actually potentially date, which in my case would be a female or passable TS. what would you consider that to be?