"Tranny Chaser?"...Men show some self-respect!

[castabyss]

I find it a little surprising that only ONE girl replied to this post (even though I did say it was for the men). I wonder why?

I'd be interested in hearing Vicki's take on it, at least.

CA

[tsarielblue]

Wow.....
MEGABODY.. You think you know statistics huh?
My take on this "issue" is, this community is like all communities. You have your good apples and bad apples. Of course life is full of bad apples. But you must sift to get to the good ones. That what makes life so exciting .
To say tranny chaser this, or tranny selling themselves have no lives and that thats all we do, is lame. We are so quick to judge what we do not understand. Remember folks its just opinions based on experiences. Maybe you folks need better experiences ...
KISSES..........

[Tadmirer]

While I mostly agree with the original post by castabyss, I have to disagree with a couple of the replies.

Megabody wrote -
'I HATE THE WORD ADMIRER EVEN MORE...I ADMIRE NOBODY.....THESE GIRLS WOULDNT EAT OR BE ABLE TO WHIPE THEIR ASS IF IT WASNT FOR THEM SELLING THIER DICK AND GUYS PAYING FOR SEX......"

Obviously, I don't hate the word "admirer" and in fact, I personally admire
many people, including some TG women, who are brave enough to be true to themselves,
to speak the truth (as they see it), and stand up for others, who might not be so self-confident, in a world that's quick to criticize.

Not all TG women are escorts, and Junior's excellent post http://www.hungangels.com/board/viewtopic.php?t=3850
should be thoroughly read by all.

BUT, If your only possible cause of interest is sex, then you're not looking
for a relationship. You're looking just to get laid, and that's okay, but
you shouldn't complain if you are treated like a "trick".

If you are looking at the whole person, and you treat the girl decently,
like another worthwhile human being, who you would enjoy knowing -
then, yes, you have a right to expect reciprocation.

But now, NickThe Quick wrote -
"Little hard to imagine since I don't buy B***** drinks, but that B***** would be wearing that drink if she tried that shit on me."

Not being a doormat, for girls to walk on, is one thing, but this kind of statement just makes a guy look rude and ill-mannered.
If this is your attitude, do you honestly expect to be successful with women.

DUH !!!!!

You don't have to dis-respect otherpeople, to retain your self-respect.

[NickTheQuick]

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[Lafuerza]

Well I am nice to most people here, but never to kiss anyone's ass, as I will probably never meet anyone of you; I would gain nothing from it.
I really don't care if someone does have that intention, that's their personal issue. Everyone get's their eyes opened at one point, and even though castabyss' post was well intended it wasn't really necessary IMO.

[Quinn]

People who kiss ass are always bad news. I’m not talking about someone giving a sincere and well intended compliment; I’m talking about sycophants looking to toady up. Believe it or not, I’ve actually fired employees for kissing ass (though, I always used some other legally acceptable justification). Why? Trust is critical.

-Quinn

[Lafuerza]

People who kiss ass are always bad news. I’m not talking about someone giving a sincere and well intended compliment; I’m talking about sycophants looking to toady up. Believe it or not, I’ve actually fired employees for kissing ass (though, I always used some other legally acceptable justification). Why? Trust is critical.

-Quinn

.........which is when they hopefully get their eyes opened.

[MarylandsMighty]

I read this thread after the one about showing respect.

Funny how posters in this thread say not to kiss ass, and they dont kiss ass yet in the respect post they ask that all newbies kiss their ass since they are veterans and have 500 plus posts.

No one should kiss anyones ass, whether they have tits and a dick or 500 posts.

I think these two tie together. T-girls are sick of "tricks" and "Marks" and "kiss asses". Others are tired of the elitist snobs who feel that since they have posted 500 times that they deserve a fucking parade in their honor.

Everyone is here for something, be it conversation since they are lonely or information if they are curious.

Aside from that if you are hoping to get more from a message board, or you expect more from a message board, you need to escape the cubicle and get out in life.

[lmw222001]

Not looking to start a controversy, but I have gotten tired of the "tranny chaser" label. I see some girls throwing this term around like a baseball bat with razor blades in it and I'm tired of it.

I am attracted to transsexuals. Have I ever paid for sex with a TS? Yes. Have I ever dated a TS? Yes. Would I pay for sex again with a TS? Probably not, unless it was one of my all time favorites and I felt like treating myself. Does this make me a tranny chaser? No, because I'm not really sure that term applies to anything in reality.

I also hate the word "trick". A lot of girls have the "once a trick, always a trick" mentality, although it seems that prostitution is, at first, the easiest way for some of us to break into the scene. Eventually we can develop friendships and other relationships with TS's on mutual terms that don't necessarily involve money.

But ultimately, this is a post for the men. Show some self-respect. Some of you do, but some of you suck up incessantly to a few of the more high profile girls on here and it's sad. It's not like they're going to remember your bucket of compliments for them at some party, fall in love with you, and give you free sex for life. I see some men on this board agreeing with the most ridiculous statements a few girls make like over-exictied puppies, particularly when these girls (and I do mean a FEW girls, not a lot) make denigrating or derrogatory comments about men. Personally, I don't "chase" any girls because 1) ultimately it isn't necessary if you have a personality and 2) girls see it as pathetic.

So, the "tranny-chaser" label is essentially the fault of overly-fetishized men who'll say anything to a girl so they can suck their dick. I say liberate yourselves from thinking with the wrong head and develop real relationships with girls rather than worshipping them as idols! Most of the girls in here DESERVE respect and they should be treated as such. But those girls that DON'T treat the MEN with respect? Well, I think I've made my point.........

Just my little brain-fart for the day.

CA

P.S. Notice that I did not "call out" anybody by name. If it doesn't apply, let it fly.

It's A Very Shitty And Demeaning Label. Never Have Liked It...Never Will.

[dabaldone]

Well well well, like my little brother says (by the way he likes TS women also) it's good not feeling like the the Lone Ranger. I prefer TS women. But, I'm tired of being compared to "tricks and chasers". I just came out of a LTR with a TS. Trying to find someone who is relationship minded is almost impossible. But hell, I'll keep my eyes open.
Guy's who kiss ass really make it difficult for the fellas who are sincere. Ladies we love youand respect you. But don't lump us in the same category. And let the church say AMEN!