For Fuck Sakes

[loveboof]

Im a transsexual! my body does not match my soul
....
You girls are offended when i say that when you like penetration its a masculine side in your personality and or sexuality...i think that is not offensive, its just true

When you say your body does not match your soul, are you actually saying that you still consider yourself a man?

And personality and sexuality does not necessarily have to be aligned. Look at those powerful business men who enjoy being dominated. Are they any worse at their job because of this fantasy..?

[MrsKellyPierce]

Most of you girls to me appear to only want to be the centre of attention instead of truely wanting to educate people about transwoman lol
But i could be wrong...

I think you are very wrong Michelle and I have been activists for years.

I have been an activist, since I was 16 years old.

I was part of St. Pete PRIDE - Mind you the only transsexual Secretary of St. Pete PRIDE.

Spoke to hundreds of colleges and schools about being transsexual to educate!

And get these small minded and closed minded views you yourself have conquered in some way!

I have always given back to my own community and helped!

I have lived a very blessed life. Transitioned at age 12 and went to high school as a girl. With out being beating up or too much discrimination.

A family and husband that loves me and supports me in all I do.

So please you are ridiculous.

Oh and one other thing I'm DRUG FREE and ALCOHOL FREE for the most part. I rarely every drink - if I do it's a glass of champagne on a special occasion.

You sure dish a lot of judgement out doll..

Usually the ones that are the most judgmental typically have something to hide or have something wrong with them.

[MrsKellyPierce]

And not to be mean, but your yourself don't look like you are that far transitioned Birgitta to pick on that other girl.

Again those in glass houses shouldn't throw stones!

And I typically find the ones that are in such disregard and judgement of others are either crossdressers wanting to be a girl (fantasizing)

OR

They are the ones that have body dysphoria and not transsexuals.

And then end up unhappy after the change.

[Birgitta]

When you say your body does not match your soul, are you actually saying that you still consider yourself a man?

And personality and sexuality does not necessarily have to be aligned. Look at those powerful business men who enjoy being dominated. Are they any worse at their job because of this fantasy..?

Yeah true they dont have to be alligned, but as far as penetration in role reversal goes by an actual penis, i think thats gay or bisexual and feminine behavior, and not straight...

Physically im in between, my soul is my identity, but my body differs from my soul..im not exactly a man anymore, im on female hormones, have breast etc..my penis does not define my soul..but my male parts are male parst

They are not feminine,
Im too rational for you guys and gals lol

[loveboof]

Yeah true they dont have to be alligned, but as far as penetration in role reversal goes by an actual penis, i think thats gay or bisexual and feminine behavior, and not straight...

Physically im in between, my soul is my identity, but my body differs from my soul..im not exactly a man anymore, im on female hormones, have breast etc..my penis does not define my soul..but my male parts are male parst

They are not feminine,
Im too rational for you guys and gals lol

Maybe you are, but then there are a lot of people who would consider you to be irrational for believing in souls. I don't think it would be fair to say either one of those views are wrong, and it is similar in this discussion.

Maybe you are right, and it is inherently masculine to penetrate another person. However, if you believe this, then (with all due respect) it sounds to me like you are still in the midst of your identity issues.

[Birgitta]

I think you are very wrong Michelle and I have been activists for years.

I have been an activist, since I was 16 years old.

I was part of St. Pete PRIDE - Mind you the only transsexual Secretary of St. Pete PRIDE.

Spoke to hundreds of colleges and schools about being transsexual to educate!

And get these small minded and closed minded views you yourself have conquered in some way!

I have always given back to my own community and helped!

I have lived a very blessed life. Transitioned at age 12 and went to high school as a girl. With out being beating up or too much discrimination.

A family and husband that loves me and supports me in all I do.

So please you are ridiculous.

Oh and one other thing I'm DRUG FREE and ALCOHOL FREE for the most part. I rarely every drink - if I do it's a glass of champagne on a special occasion.

You sure dish a lot of judgement out doll..

Usually the ones that are the most judgmental typically have something to hide or have something wrong with them.

I am ridiculous? You know as well as i do that there still is a lot of suffering in the tcommunity,

I wonder what i have to hide, i think ive been extremely open on this forum,
And whats wrong with me?

Well i am a ts and desire my life to much like the life of an ordinary woman as much as possible! I know you think thats wrong, and the guys here too...

That im delusional for wanting that for myself
and btw i have accomplished that too, im also drug and alcohol free but thats beside the point,

I defend my point of view, you defend yours...but i still dont think im narrow minded, just very rational

[nicebrn]

I dont know what gay guys you been around but I know many masculine buff guys who would never be considered gay who love to bottom. They would never say getting fucked makes them feminine. Once again I dont know where you get your facts!

And I know many many masc bears who love to get fisted and fucked that would never say that is sissy stuff. So once again what gay crowd are you around? They must be as closed minded as you.

I've wondered this too. I've never been to Euro-land, but based on the UK scene I've seen on TV and conversations I've had with British and German girls, GLBT culture seems at least as diverse as it is in the States. I haven't yet talked with anyone else on the Continent who believes all those masculine/feminine/active/passive/top/bottom roles are so rigid.

I could be wrong, but hey--that's just like, my opinion man.

[MrsKellyPierce]

I am ridiculous? You know as well as i do that there still is a lot of suffering in the tcommunity,

I wonder what i have to hide, i think ive been extremely open on this forum,
And whats wrong with me?

Well i am a ts and desire my life to much like the life of an ordinary woman as much as possible! I know you think thats wrong, and the guys here too...

That im delusional for wanting that for myself
and btw i have accomplished that too, im also drug and alcohol free but thats beside the point,

I defend my point of view, you defend yours...but i still dont think im narrow minded, just very rational

I don't think you understand the word rational...

agreeable to reason; reasonable; sensible: a rational plan for economic development.
2. having or exercising reason, sound judgment, or good sense: a calm and rational negotiator.

3. being in or characterized by full possession of one's reason; sane; lucid: The patient appeared perfectly rational.

And you are misquoting and trying to play the victim on the delusional comment

And you were being ridiculous on your claim, about the spotlight.

I was doing activism way before porn.

[Birgitta]

Maybe you are, but then there are a lot of people who would consider you to be irrational for believing in souls. I don't think it would be fair to say either one of those views are wrong, and it is similar in this discussion.

Maybe you are right, and it is inherently masculine to penetrate another person. However, if you believe this, then (with all due respect) it sounds to me like you are still in the midst of your identity issues.

Why? I dont use my cock for the purpose of penetrating guys lol so why am i having identity issues?

My female identity that i call soul might as well just be the way my brain is wired...

[Birgitta]

I don't think you understand the word rational...

agreeable to reason; reasonable; sensible: a rational plan for economic development.
2. having or exercising reason, sound judgment, or good sense: a calm and rational negotiator.

3. being in or characterized by full possession of one's reason; sane; lucid: The patient appeared perfectly rational.

And you are misquoting and trying to play the victim on the delusional comment

Well i recognise myself in that lol