qm
05-31-2005, 04:33 PM
Hi there, I'm new on this board.
I have a couple of questions about shemales. First of all, do they only become shemales for making porn or working as an escort or prostitute? When I look at the party photos it doesn't seem like that, but when I look around in the net I never find them in another context. Ok, there are transgendered people, and they show up in many contexts, but they usually hate shemales if my impression is correct. It doesn't seem like true transgenderism and "shemaleism" is the same.
Do shemales really enjoy sex? Or is it all just for show? I met a transexual once, and she hated her having a penis still. Loved to kiss and cuddle, and to please me, but felt bad about her genitals. Are shemales just the same, but without problems with their penises?
Is it possible to have a real love relation with a shemale? I don't mean barbie and ken love, just something more romantic. I feel kinda stupid ... but isn't it a turnoff to get attention just because of your "gender"?
I might know the answer already, since one of my fantasies is being a woman, and when I think about such fantasies for a time I usually end up imagining to have hot sex as a woman. However, I think with 26 I am way too old already to become a pretty transgender woman or t-girl. I wouldn't want to be a "butch" woman. Is that autogynaekophilia? I'm just glad that I can also be happy as a man. To be a man can be great. To feel the hair on my chest, my muscles, my penis. I even like my way of thinking. If I could exchange all that for being a sexy and still intelligent woman I'd probably do the exchange ... if not for something other then for the kick ... but as this seems impossible I just laugh and decide for life as a man. The fantasies remain, as fantasies.
I've read about anal orgasm once. Is it that which shemales can experience by anal sex? I even had an anal orgasm once myself, by a girl who gave me a blowjob while stimulating my anus with her fingers. It was mindblowing. Can't compare with my "normal" orgasms that only involve my penis most of the time. My whole abdomen fell into spasms of some sort, and my penis felt like a volcano. It was very very pleasing. However, if I check the normal shemale porn I never see such a thing. It seemed like the orgasms of the shemales were negligible. Could be because it's just porn, but who knows. All I know is that a real anal orgasm would look differently than in the porn movies.
What is this whole business with hardcore porn anyway? Why is there no softcore shemale porn? Would LOVE that. Always just guy meets shemale, going to a location, blowing and fucking, cumshot. I get it that this simply sells best nowadays, but I really think there's a niche for good softcore.
Are there intellectual shemales? I read an interview with Allannah Starr once, and she appeared to have intellectual interests, almost existentialist ones. Is this rare amongst shemales? Or do they just kinda hide it?
I'm an active participator, or inactive reader, at a lot of discussion boards, yet I never see transgendered people or shemales there. I realize a lot of people have problems with them, and t-girls might just want to evade these other people. But I don't think there'll ever be a more open scene if this continues.
Oh, and it seems that t-girls get prettier and more feminine by the days. I first saw a shemale in a sexshop 7 years ago. I didn't find them very exciting. Most of them had no hips to speak of. When they had nice breasts it was an unusual surprise. Nowadays ... wow, they can be utter sexbombs.
Another question: What's the biggest breastsize a t-girl had gotten to only with hormones? Do you have a picture of a t-girl with such big natural breasts? I'm not a big-breasts-fetishist, at least, not always 8) . I also have a crush on t-girls with small but natural breasts. Somehow this can look very exciting, can make a girl, whether genetic girl or not, appear more horny.
Is there a directory of private sites of shemales somewhere? Where I can learn about their thoughts and normal life? Would be very interested, but googling for it seemed like a waste of time.
Ok, that's all for now. If some intelligent shemale wants a messenger friend, please feel free to contact me. I'm not looking for a partner right now, sexual or romantic, just for friends.
Have a good day!
I have a couple of questions about shemales. First of all, do they only become shemales for making porn or working as an escort or prostitute? When I look at the party photos it doesn't seem like that, but when I look around in the net I never find them in another context. Ok, there are transgendered people, and they show up in many contexts, but they usually hate shemales if my impression is correct. It doesn't seem like true transgenderism and "shemaleism" is the same.
Do shemales really enjoy sex? Or is it all just for show? I met a transexual once, and she hated her having a penis still. Loved to kiss and cuddle, and to please me, but felt bad about her genitals. Are shemales just the same, but without problems with their penises?
Is it possible to have a real love relation with a shemale? I don't mean barbie and ken love, just something more romantic. I feel kinda stupid ... but isn't it a turnoff to get attention just because of your "gender"?
I might know the answer already, since one of my fantasies is being a woman, and when I think about such fantasies for a time I usually end up imagining to have hot sex as a woman. However, I think with 26 I am way too old already to become a pretty transgender woman or t-girl. I wouldn't want to be a "butch" woman. Is that autogynaekophilia? I'm just glad that I can also be happy as a man. To be a man can be great. To feel the hair on my chest, my muscles, my penis. I even like my way of thinking. If I could exchange all that for being a sexy and still intelligent woman I'd probably do the exchange ... if not for something other then for the kick ... but as this seems impossible I just laugh and decide for life as a man. The fantasies remain, as fantasies.
I've read about anal orgasm once. Is it that which shemales can experience by anal sex? I even had an anal orgasm once myself, by a girl who gave me a blowjob while stimulating my anus with her fingers. It was mindblowing. Can't compare with my "normal" orgasms that only involve my penis most of the time. My whole abdomen fell into spasms of some sort, and my penis felt like a volcano. It was very very pleasing. However, if I check the normal shemale porn I never see such a thing. It seemed like the orgasms of the shemales were negligible. Could be because it's just porn, but who knows. All I know is that a real anal orgasm would look differently than in the porn movies.
What is this whole business with hardcore porn anyway? Why is there no softcore shemale porn? Would LOVE that. Always just guy meets shemale, going to a location, blowing and fucking, cumshot. I get it that this simply sells best nowadays, but I really think there's a niche for good softcore.
Are there intellectual shemales? I read an interview with Allannah Starr once, and she appeared to have intellectual interests, almost existentialist ones. Is this rare amongst shemales? Or do they just kinda hide it?
I'm an active participator, or inactive reader, at a lot of discussion boards, yet I never see transgendered people or shemales there. I realize a lot of people have problems with them, and t-girls might just want to evade these other people. But I don't think there'll ever be a more open scene if this continues.
Oh, and it seems that t-girls get prettier and more feminine by the days. I first saw a shemale in a sexshop 7 years ago. I didn't find them very exciting. Most of them had no hips to speak of. When they had nice breasts it was an unusual surprise. Nowadays ... wow, they can be utter sexbombs.
Another question: What's the biggest breastsize a t-girl had gotten to only with hormones? Do you have a picture of a t-girl with such big natural breasts? I'm not a big-breasts-fetishist, at least, not always 8) . I also have a crush on t-girls with small but natural breasts. Somehow this can look very exciting, can make a girl, whether genetic girl or not, appear more horny.
Is there a directory of private sites of shemales somewhere? Where I can learn about their thoughts and normal life? Would be very interested, but googling for it seemed like a waste of time.
Ok, that's all for now. If some intelligent shemale wants a messenger friend, please feel free to contact me. I'm not looking for a partner right now, sexual or romantic, just for friends.
Have a good day!