Who wants to be a tgirl forever?

[Beauty.x.Beauty]

Great post BxB and very well said. Of course there's a full spectrum of beliefs and attitudes amongst trans girls and I certainly respect your stance.

I never take issue with what the girls say, but I do with the guys on HA who consistently make assumptions on their behalf, often crassly and insensitively, because they seem incapable or are unwilling to recognise and sympathise with the complexity and traumas which many transgender people face every day.

However, you very clearly and articulately know what's right for you, and it's great to hear it stated so confidently and definitively. You go girl!

Thank you! and yes, Its usually the guy's assumptions that get on my nerves because they typically have no idea what they're talking about. I am glad you understand where I am coming from and for the sake of the thread I think I will be a "tgirl" forever

[robertlouis]

Thank you! and yes, Its usually the guy's assumptions that get on my nerves because they typically have no idea what they're talking about. I am glad you understand where I am coming from and for the sake of the thread I think I will be a "tgirl" forever

And thank you, Beauty. You certainly live up to your name!

Understood, respected, applauded. All the very best.

[Rusty Eldora]

Thank you! and yes, Its usually the guy's assumptions that get on my nerves because they typically have no idea what they're talking about. I am glad you understand where I am coming from and for the sake of the thread I think I will be a "tgirl" forever

You hit the key point, one Accepting who they are as well as those around you. I am personally amazed at the quality of person that tgirls can be. It is not my place to speak as to why someone wants to take the journey of transition. Each person has a reason. What I do know is it takes a determined effort for years that is far from easy. Any tgirl that has successfully transitioned that they feel and vibe as a woman should be very, very proud.

I think the tgirl keeping her tool gives her the best of both worlds. Going for SRS doesn't make you a better woman, just more like a woman. My hope is when society better accepts tgirls they would be able to celebrate either of her choices.

Thank you Beauty for your insight.

[Beauty.x.Beauty]

You hit the key point, one Accepting who they are as well as those around you. I am personally amazed at the quality of person that tgirls can be. It is not my place to speak as to why someone wants to take the journey of transition. Each person has a reason. What I do know is it takes a determined effort for years that is far from easy. Any tgirl that has successfully transitioned that they feel and vibe as a woman should be very, very proud.

I think the tgirl keeping her tool gives her the best of both worlds. Going for SRS doesn't make you a better woman, just more like a woman. My hope is when society better accepts tgirls they would be able to celebrate either of her choices.

Thank you Beauty for your insight.

I appreciate your comment. I hate to be a stickler but saying something like... SRS doesn't make you a better woman, just more like a woman, It really gets my brain going. See the thing is, Being a woman is a social construct. It is to be determined by how one integrates & functions with in society. When you meet women on your day to day life, you just dont see whats between their legs. You see everything else and thats what gives one the idea of whether a person is a woman or not. On the other hand, I can say yes, More like a woman can be appropriate when it comes to the naked body. I know! Im over analytical lol... Anyway! Thank you! I appreciate your comments.

[robertlouis]

I appreciate your comment. I hate to be a stickler but saying something like... SRS doesn't make you a better woman, just more like a woman, It really gets my brain going. See the thing is, Being a woman is a social construct. It is to be determined by how one integrates & functions with in society. When you meet women on your day to day life, you just dont see whats between their legs. You see everything else and thats what gives one the idea of whether a person is a woman or not. On the other hand, I can say yes, More like a woman can be appropriate when it comes to the naked body. I know! Im over analytical lol... Anyway! Thank you! I appreciate your comments.

I get what you're saying and agree to a large extent. The only point I'd add is that several women of my acquaintance have had full srs and in terms of their own physiological and emotional perception of themselves it has enabled them to embrace the womanhood they've been seeking for many years.

It isn't what someone else perceives and thinks; it's how the girl sees herself that matters.

[stan.smith]

I know vaniity doesnt want to and her reason of not wanting SRS is the same that accounts for 90% of why others wont either. excerpt from vanity wikipeida
"Her main reason for the decision is the fear that she will lose genital sensitivity and never have an orgasm ever again."

[Rusty Eldora]

I appreciate your comment. I hate to be a stickler but saying something like... SRS doesn't make you a better woman, just more like a woman, It really gets my brain going. See the thing is, Being a woman is a social construct. It is to be determined by how one integrates & functions with in society. When you meet women on your day to day life, you just dont see whats between their legs. You see everything else and thats what gives one the idea of whether a person is a woman or not. On the other hand, I can say yes, More like a woman can be appropriate when it comes to the naked body. I know! Im over analytical lol... Anyway! Thank you! I appreciate your comments.

I totally agree about the social construct thing.

I have now experienced 6 Tgirls that are the best women I have met, just so good in every way and a real joy to spend time with. I mean that their mind, soul, personality, actions and appearance are true 10's - total sweethearts. I love being intimate with an amazing woman - no matter whether she is an innie or an outie.

[Dino Velvet]

Wow, I mean lets not get delusional here! regardless of what surgery a trans woman has she will always be a trans woman(tgirl) and that will never ever change. Now, having a dick forever, most girls feel very threatened by having a dick. I, however know better. I know that having a dick does not in anyway threaten the womanhood that I already have. I feel that my womanhood is not going to IMPROVE by buying a pussy. If we can say we are women with out having a pussy then why would having a pussy miraculously make us more of a woman than we were before surgery? It's not like we're going to start having menstrual cycles and going through labor when ever we decide to mate.
When I was younger, like 6 years old, I told my mother when I grow up, im going to be a woman and I'm going to get a vagina. She laughed and said yea? we'll see. My first few years after i started my transition, I was certain I was going to get a pussy because I thought that was the only way to live peacefully with my self and to be accepted by men. By time I was 17 I finally met another Trans and she introduced me to a whole new world of other Tgirls and Tgirl admirers.
Before that , I used to hook up with guys with out telling them I was a ts. So I never used my dick with a guy as a girl & when I finally started having that experience.. It was really weird to me but you know what? I realized, these guys are really into it, they are very much turned on by the presence of me. They appreciate my femininity and they embrace every part of my body and make me feel NORMAL as I AM... You know the saying, don't fix it if it ain't broken? Hey, I feel very blessed that I am comfortable enough in my own skin that I don't have to seek out all of these surgeries just to feel like a normal human being, what ever the fuck that means. Being trans really isn't that hard once you can ACCEPT your self. I've accepted that I am a woman and I have a dick. My dick does not define me but it is THERE! Millions of men love me this way and most importantly of all, I LOVE ME THIS WAY. So I really sorry for the girls that are victims to gender dysphoria because a lot of them end up pretty fucked up.

You got a good head on your shoulders. I like the fact that you feel comfortable in your own skin. Good self-esteem is definitely attractive.

[Donkey]

Good self-esteem is definitely attractive.

Yes, but unfortunately rarely found in TS.

[gaysian71]

Yes, but unfortunately rarely found in TS.

Are you kidding me? If you really think that, you exposure to transsexuals must be limited to crack addicted street hookers. In fact the average trans person probably has a lot more self esteem than the average straight person.