Transsexual who won't see black clients? Racist or Safety Measure?

[south ov da border]

Very well stated, JP. I would have to agree with this statement. To me, it's simply a preference... however, there are a select few in which I have met with and had a great time with. .

I know from MY experiences, when they tend to call our numbers, the first words out of their mouths are usually pretty ugh. Idk how else to put it - just here in Houston, they lack manners and proper phone etiquette.

I agree with the lack of etiquette. I am proper spoken as raised from young and I always got called white boy...

[giovanni_hotel]

Why throw bombs on purpose on HA, tglover???

THe #1 suspect in the murder of Stacy, from Philly, was a 'hulking WHITE man' seen leaving her rowhouse.
The implication that trans-escorts are at a higher risk of violence from Black and non-white johns is intellectually dishonest.

For those girls who succumb to violence, I would assume most were victims of family members or close intimate associates ( non-professional).
This BS that ALL escorts would be safe from violent encounters if they avoided Black clients in delusional, IMO.
Still a girl should and MUST do whatever she can to be and feel SAFE, whether than means never seeing a client without someone you know close by, pre-screening clients, ( which I have been and makes perfect sense BTW!), having a taser or other weapon stashed in the room, etc.

But to say, hmm, 'John Doe's complexion is a little too dark, PASS,' is setting up a girl for having her head caved in by Beaver Cleaver because you cut his BJ short by a couple minutes.

From my understanding, the deaths in NJ weren't professional dates that went 'bad'. It sounds like these girls met these guys socially, possibly rejected these men, and they went off.
So does that mean a girl should avoid all Black men in any social situations???
Look, most Black people are victims of violence from other Black folks. I'm sure it's the case for other racial/ethnic groups also.
If a girl makes a habit of seeing DL thug types and fuccing with them, she's probably putting herself at risk. Or someone who's deeply closeted and has a difficult time processing even being intimate with a transgendered woman.

To simplify the problem and distill it to down to one superficial physical trait, one's skin color, is just dumb.

But really, do what you feel you must. A Black john might be initially offended for being rejected because of his race alone, but many of us could give a shit.

Just remember the first time you get roughed up by a white cop, or a puerto rican dude refuses to pay because the ass wasn't tight enough, or John Smith in the two-piece gives you drama and starts raising his voice at you, recall that the problem isn't about 'race'.

It's about personality type.

BTW, these type of threads every couple months do a lot for the drama quotient on HA, but they're a waste of time.

( I should delete this post!!!)

[bte]

Its the escort choice about who they want to see. I don't think its racist. Some white girls are just not attracted to black guys. It happens, that doesn't make the person racist. It just a matter of preference. Now if they are doing it for a safety measure, then thats stupid. One race is not prone more to violence than another race. The "Craiglist Killer" was white.

I agree with Giovanni Hotel, its all about personality.

[www.tglovers.com]

Why throw bombs on purpose on HA, tglover???

THe #1 suspect in the murder of Stacy, from Philly, was a 'hulking WHITE man' seen leaving her rowhouse.
The implication that trans-escorts are at a higher risk of violence from Black and non-white johns is intellectually dishonest.

For those girls who succumb to violence, I would assume most were victims of family members or close intimate associates ( non-professional).
This BS that ALL escorts would be safe from violent encounters if they avoided Black clients in delusional, IMO.
Still a girl should and MUST do whatever she can to be and feel SAFE, whether than means never seeing a client without someone you know close by, pre-screening clients, ( which I have been and makes perfect sense BTW!), having a taser or other weapon stashed in the room, etc.

But to say, hmm, 'John Doe's complexion is a little too dark, PASS,' is setting up a girl for having her head caved in by Beaver Cleaver because you cut his BJ short by a couple minutes.

From my understanding, the deaths in NJ weren't professional dates that went 'bad'. It sounds like these girls met these guys socially, possibly rejected these men, and they went off.
So does that mean a girl should avoid all Black men in any social situations???
Look, most Black people are victims of violence from other Black folks. I'm sure it's the case for other racial/ethnic groups also.
If a girl makes a habit of seeing DL thug types and fuccing with them, she's probably putting herself at risk. Or someone who's deeply closeted and has a difficult time processing even being intimate with a transgendered woman.

To simplify the problem and distill it to down to one superficial physical trait, one's skin color, is just dumb.

But really, do what you feel you must. A Black john might be initially offended for being rejected because of his race alone, but many of us could give a shit.

Just remember the first time you get roughed up by a white cop, or a puerto rican dude refuses to pay because the ass wasn't tight enough, or John Smith in the two-piece gives you drama and starts raising his voice at you, recall that the problem isn't about 'race'.

It's about personality type.

BTW, these type of threads every couple months do a lot for the drama quotient on HA, but they're a waste of time.

( I should delete this post!!!)

Its a question....were all adults? How its considered a "Bomb", I'm not sure.

Racism is a part of the world we live in. So why is it not up for discussion?

If you watched the video you would know it wasn't "simplified". Its a fact that black men have been raised in a manner that breeds homophobia. Of course its not exclusive to black men but as a black woman, I speak from my personal experiences.

By the way....if you want to delete it...delete it!

As if you deleting it would be the end of my world.

[Silcc69]

Its a question....were all adults? How its considered a "Bomb", I'm not sure.

Racism is a part of the world we live in. So why is it not up for discussion?

If you watched the video you would know it wasn't "simplified". Its a fact that black men have been raised in a manner that breeds homophobia. Of course its not exclusive to black men but as a black woman, I speak from my personal experiences.

You essentially beating a dead horse. This topic comes up damn near all the time and that is what G was talkin about.

[Prospero]

An escort in London I used to know was nearly killed by a middle class middle aged white client. Another beaten up by a young white guy. So violence doesn't relate to skin colour.
That said there is a disturbing bias towards homophobia among young west indians in the UK - spurred on in part by some rap artistes. Hatred of gay and transgender people also comes from religion - fundamentalist Islam and Christianity are particularly culpable.
I knew another London escort who lived in a preponderantly Moslem area and she would get death threats made quite regularly when she came and went from her flat.

[www.tglovers.com]

You essentially beating a dead horse. This topic comes up damn near all the time and that is what G was talkin about.

That's not what he said. Tons of topics come up repeatedly on this board.

[bte]

Although I think she is beating a dead horse. This thread is a lot more interesting than those "I finally realize why I like trannies (even though I've been a member since 2007)" threads that have been popping up the last week or so.

[FreddieGomez]

get ready for paris to turn this thread all about her........

[smithken]

ehh the R word gets thrown too much. basically depends how ur brought up as a child. alot inter city black children have it rough and have a hardtime breaking into the real world. was it just a hood robbery? or just a hate murder?